How to Look and Feel Confident in Front of the Camera | Virginia Beach Photographer | LexLeigh Photography

alexispfaffinger
Oct 28
1 min read

Most people tell me the same thing before a session: “I’m not photogenic.” The truth? Everyone can look incredible in photos - you just need the right guidance and environment.

Pregnant woman in red dress and white hat stands in grassy field at sunset, gently holding belly with serene expression.

Here’s how I help my clients feel confident and relaxed in front of the camera:

1. Preparation Creates Confidence

Before your session, we’ll talk through styling, locations, and your vision. Having a plan helps you feel prepared - and when you’re prepared, confidence naturally follows.

2. Wardrobe That Flatters

The right outfit can make all the difference. That’s why I offer access to a curated client closet filled with flattering, timeless pieces. I also help coordinate family wardrobes so everything feels polished and cohesive.

Smiling woman in a white dress stands in a sunflower field, under bright sunlight. Lush green trees form the background, creating a serene mood.

3. Gentle Direction (No Awkward Poses!)

You don’t have to know what to do in front of the camera - that’s my job. I’ll guide you into natural movement and connection, so your portraits feel genuine, not forced.

4. Focus on Emotion, Not Perfection

The best photos aren’t about “perfect” smiles. They’re about authentic connection: the way you laugh with your partner, cuddle your newborn, or hold your child’s hand. When you focus on the moment, the confidence shines through.

A couple holds hands in a field at sunset. The woman wears a flowing red dress, and the sky is painted with soft orange and pink hues.

5. Trust the Process

From the way I light and pose you, to the professional editing afterward, every step is designed to help you look and feel your best.

✨ Confidence doesn’t come from being “photogenic.” It comes from being comfortable, guided, and celebrated. And that’s exactly what I promise to deliver in every session.